Just a thought!!

It was the chills of the winter mornings that reached me in advance to the dim warm sunlight,as i snuggled up under my cozy blanket assuring myself of some more sleep to my adamant eyes.But then a specific background noise never let me succeed in my quest of taming my sleep,i groaned and cribbed,this wasn’t the first time that I was awaken by a sharp hitting sound,it was still 6:30 in the morning and the lady two blocks from mine was taking the crap out of the clothes, they were a marwadi joint family and as I had observed that the lady of the house works,works and works and then smile and serve the others and continue the damn cycle.As I still complained about my disturbed sleep and wandered in to my green misty garden,the laundry lady smiled at me like always and no more than that,only then I realized that i could have been like her,pushed into dire circumstances and end up cleaning,cooking and doing laundry but fate had saved me but should we leave everything for fate,why don’t we use our share of utilizing our opportunities.

My feet cracked with cold outside,I still stared at infinity to find an answer,should she just give up all the work and throw away things and just do what her heart says?i answered my own question ,what if her heart finds happiness in serving her family?or maybe she would appreciate a small favour from them as she couldn’t just take decision because she was branded as the inferior homo-sapien,the women,they are supposed to spend living their life subjugating themselves to the work that they consider low…BUT when given more thoughts into this delicate matter,a truth that has to be understood resurfaces,that of the matriarchal society where the women where the head and their decisions were considered final but then it was destructed and soon ended up in the corner of the history books.But we live in an era were people are educated and are capable of making the right decisions with their broad perspective,hence here the superiority fades and equality persists and both  Adam and Eve has to share the responsibilities,the happiness and their worries together.It was an age-old tradition that got adulterated during the ages.If women can work in all sectors and men can be the best chefs in the world,I don’t see any dominance!!just ,a healthy society,a better nation and a better world is all we ask for,isn’t it?Then the truth to be embraced is that of balance is beautiful,and it makes or life much more beautiful.Bowing to all the women who stood up for themselves and all the men who supported in the quest.

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5 thoughts on “Just a thought!!

  1. Darshan J says:

    Vortex of life…well said
    You didn’t tell me about this at all…
    Its making me feel dumb…The title of ur blog itself shows that u have found ursef….

    ALL the BEST.

    Like

  2. AISHWARYA DC says:

    suits my perspective of lyf nd thinking:) found yet another piece of a gr8 work:):) atb:)

    Like

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